望子成人——家庭教育的主旋律

“望子成龙”的基础是“望子成人”。“望子成人”要求父母怀着一颗平常心 ,顺应孩子生理和心理发展的自然规律 ,促进孩子正常发育、健康成长。这应该是贯穿家庭教育始终的主旋律 !孩子是爱与智慧浇铸的“合金”。他是完整发展的个体 ,基于这种完整性 ,家庭教育应该是完整的 ,而非残缺的。他是健康和谐发展的个体 ,因此家庭教育也应该是健康的 ,而非病态的。由此 ,望子成人也便具有了这样的内涵 :完整的教育和健康的教育。

The theme of family education: expecting children to grow up naturally

Many negative consequences are brought about by the anxiety of some parents"expecting children to be something" in life. Aiming at these phenomena, we put forward that the foundation of "expecting children to be something" is " expecting children to grow up naturally". It requires parents to keep an ordinary heart, conform to the natural rules of physical and mental development and promote children to grow well. This should be the only theme throughout family education! This article further shows that children are the "alloy" cast of affection and wisdom. They develop wholly, so family education should not be partial but whole. They develop healthily, so family education should not be abnormal but healthy. Thus, "expecting children to grow up naturally" implies the content as follows: whole education and healthy education.